I have said before on this blog that before DD there was always abit of of submissive/dominant element to us. Over time and after practicing DD for a while we were able to establish a difference between actually getting spanked in a "dont do that again" way or getting what we call a "good girl spanking". I will elaborate on the differences in a future post. But right now I want to talk abit about the D/S side of us.
Point blank: I am naturally submissive.
I love the fact that I met J so young and it has been a pretty easy journey. I am completely comfortable around him. I love him enough and trust him enough to have given him the gift of my submission. I truly believe that submission is a gift and that it should be earned by a Dom. In return I am given control that I NEED, That I crave. I am given attention. A part of me that has always been there but I was unsure of is nurtured.
Some choose to live a D/S relationship 24/7. We don't. We can't. When we can though, we do.
I love submitting to J. I love pleasing him. I love what I get in return. Honestly, I call J "Daddy", he calls me his Naughty Little Girl/Princess. This is just what works for us. Its a huge turn on for us. But it goes even deeper.
-Melly
You know, through starting DD, the D/s side has come out in us quite a bit as well. I think the Daddy/little girl dynamic is so sweet, I'm happy you found something that is working so well for you :)
ReplyDeleteIt is very sweet indeed. I definately agree with ypu. I am glad you are exploring and finding something that makes you happy. :)
ReplyDeleteCheers!
-Melly
I agree--submission should be earned. That's why I always laugh when random men expect a submissive to submit to anyone.
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