A bit on the D/S side of us

To say that I hate spankings isnt true. Its not true at all. I HATE HATE HATE being spanked for punishment ,yes; But I definately do not hate being spanked in a "good girl" way.
I have said before on this blog that before DD there was always abit of of submissive/dominant element to us. Over time and after practicing DD for a while we were able to establish a difference between actually getting spanked in a "dont do that again" way or getting what we call a "good girl spanking". I will elaborate on the differences in a future post. But right now I want to talk abit about the  D/S side of us.

Point blank: I am naturally submissive.
I love the fact that I met J so young and it has been a pretty easy journey. I am completely comfortable around him. I love him enough and trust him enough to have given him the gift of my submission. I truly believe that submission is a gift and that it should be earned by a Dom. In return I am given control that I NEED, That I crave. I am given attention. A part of me that has always been there but I was unsure of  is nurtured.
Some choose to live a D/S relationship 24/7. We don't. We can't. When we can though, we do.
I love submitting to J. I love pleasing him. I love what I get in return. Honestly, I call J "Daddy", he calls me his Naughty Little Girl/Princess. This is just what works for us. Its a huge turn on for us. But it goes even deeper.

-Melly

I'm alive!!

Right now I don't even know what to do with this blog. I started it, life got super busy, and I had to stop bloging for a bit. I am back though. I guess I will just write posts as time passes and see where things go.
So when I last wrote (3 months ago..) We had just moved; Well shortly after that the computer DIED :( and then we did get a new one but life was nothing short of hectic.
Life has been going good though. I/we are still in love with our new place. Our little girl recently turned ONE. Now that was a bitter sweet day. And when I am on thr topic of my daughter I just have to take a quick moment to brag. Last week I took her to her 12 month appoitment and was told that she is advanced. My little girl is a talker and has the speech development of a 18 month old!! Her favorite word : No. (ofcourse lol)

So yes, DD is still apart of us. I am quite okay with that though. I feel like I have improved on a few things over the last few months, and I am sure J would agree. We even recently told a friend about DD. It was a bit hard on my part (seeing how im the "submissive" one..) but we have a friend whos relationship was having problems. Although DD isnt for everyone, both J and I agreed we would share with this couple as we truly felt they would benefit from this life style. And guess what? They have :)

I thought I would just leave a brief post stating I am still alive, and everything is fine. In the next few days I will post again and jump right back into thiss thing ;)

Hope everyone is doing well!! :)

-Melly