No Inches Will be Given

"Can we take a break from this? Please?"
"From DD, or us all together?"
"No baby, not from us, never from us; Just from ttwd"

I will admit this:.. I. Melly. Was. Testing. I have no clue why. Usually I dont test him, but I wanted to see how consensual ttwd actually is. I mean i KNOW its consensual, but, maybe(gulp) i was playing games. I wanted to see if he would give in.

"I don't get where you are coming from. Are you serious about this?"
"Yes, I think I am. I just want to see how life would be if I didnt have to always have in the back in my mind think I could possibly be punished. I want to be able to just make decissions on impulse. Not have to worry about your reaction."
"Uh huh. I see. I'll tell you what. It's 9:06 pm, I will give you just under 48 hours. At 9:00 pm in two days we will talk again. If you are still serious, we wont do it anymore"
That wasnt good enough for me.
"Well Im telling you right now that I dont want to, but youre telling me I have to wait 48 hours? what about till then? What if a do something worthy of a spanking before then? Are you going to spank me even though I am telling you I want a break?"
"No. For 48 hours I will not spank you. However I will still keep an open mind to what you do and if you decide you still in factly want DD then i will hold you accountable. Do you understand?"
"okay. sounds good. 48 hours. thank you."
Because I knew that I indeed didnt want to take a break, i was a perfect little angel. Okay not completely, but I was pretty good. those 48 hours past and at 8:57 he texted me.
J: So its almost 9. I am laying down. Join me when you are ready to talk.
I wanted to play just one more game ;) (okay  I can hear you all gasping, I know, bad. I get it)
Me: k. i will be there in a few. but jut so u know, I havent changed my mind. in fact my thoughts deepened and i think that instead of just taking a break, i want to call it quits.
J:wow. okay well i guess we will talk when you get in here.

I walked into the bedroom and layed beside him. Either of us said anything for a few minutes. Suddenly he spoke.

"So, youre really done with Domestic Discipline, hey?"
"Yes, I just want to be my own boss, you know?"
"Oh, okay then, I.." I quickly interrupted him. I hated this. I had no clue why I was playing this game and I was full of guilt. Guilty of playing games, of testing, of lieing.
"Honey, before you continue, I need to tell you something. Please don't be mad at me, but i can understand if you are. I really don't mean any of this. As much as I don't like the punishment as they're happening, the truth is I cant imagine us without it. I need you to lead me. I need to submit to you. You need those things too and you know it. I know this isn't forced upon me but I was just testing the water to see how you would react IF I really said I was done. I am sorry"
His face went through a range of expressions. finally he said "Wow. I don't know what to say. I don't know if I should be worried as to why you wanted to test the waters, i mean was there a reason you wanted to test them? Do you not trust me completely?"
"No, i really do. please don't think I don't. I just, I guess, I was reading around blogs and stuff and I was reading peoples comments saying us women in DD relationships are brain washed by our men to do this. I guess I just wanted to see HOW you would react."
"Hmm. Well no, I don't brain wash you, you KNOW that. You know that you can say no to DD at any given time" the he chuckled "just dont say it right before a spanking because that wont fly"
I smiled. "I know hun, Im pretty sure we have been down that road once or twice" (I may have used the whole "I dont want to be involvved in DD anymore!" line once or twice to try to avoid a spanking)
"Well I'm happy you still want this lifestyle. I'm also happy you didnt take your little joke any farther, however I do believe playing games and being testing are both spanking offenses around here. Oh and you lied."
"Whaaa? You are going to punish me for this!?" (really dont know why i didnt see that coming)
"Yes. I really think I should. As much as I do understand where you were coming from you are still guilty of lieing, playing games, and testing me. All 3 of those are major things sweetie. If I let you get away with this, I will be giving you an inch and we both know how fast your inched turn to miles" I couldnt deny that. He was very right.
"Okay, I get it. but I think you should go easy on me."
"I will decide that."
We talked abit more, he made sure I knew why he felt the need to punish me. I got what I wanted by him being easy. He started with his hand, then went to his belt. It was short. then he used a homemade paddle type thing we have, for some minor offenses that occured over those two days. (sass, attitude, etc)
"Just want to make sure our roles are re-established and you know im not giving you an inch" He said as he paddled.
Overall the spanking was easy. Completely pain free come morning.
I am happy to know that if I ever really wanted to end DD that I could; But as much as being punished sucks, I dont see myself doing that anytime soon. I get comfort in DD.

Melly

Heated Hair Straighteners Can Lead to Heated Bottoms

It was bound to happen. I mean a bad girl can only go so long before trouble catches up with her. And today it caught up with me. I had just gone about a whole week without getting into trouble. My HoH says that he was just being nice because it was Christmas, but I know it's really because I was being good ;)

Anyways, to the part of today where I was spanked. I have a tendency of leaving my hair straightener turned on when I am finished with it. I straighten my hair everyday and I probably leave it on  about once a week (which is lot better than before he took this into his hands, trust me)
I was just running to the store to grab somethings and I ran into the washroom to touch up my hair (I have one of those fancy straighteners  that heats up in under one minute). I honestly had it in mind to shut it off before I left, I did. Buuuut ofcourse I had to leave it on, J had to return (before the "auto shut-off" took into effect), he had to go in the washroom, and he just had to see my straightener turned on and left on the towel bar(ooops)
I returned home and was sooooo happy to see him home sooner than I thought! :D

Me: Babe! I didn't think you were going to be back for another few hours!
J:I ended up leaving little sooner than I thought I would. My mom didn't need me as long as I thought she did (he was out helping his mother)
Me: Thats good! We can spend sometime together! Just you, me and baby!
J: Yes, we can, but first we need to talk about something.

He said it in the way he always does, you know, with the tone that a "talk" means someone is in trouble. My mind started racing, I couldnt think of anything I did recently.

Me: Sure,hon. What do you mean? What do we need to talk about?
J: Well you see, I came home early to an empty house..
Me: Yeah I told you I had to pick somethings up, remember?
J: Yes babe, I know you went shopping, thats not what bothered me.
Me: Umm okay then, so what did then?
J: Well I went into the bathroom and when I went to dry my hands I saw your straightener still turned on, and not only was it still turned on, you left it hung over the towel bar on top of towels.
Me: Oh no! I really meant to shut it off! I just left in a rush, you know?
J: Yes I can understand that, but we have talked about this many times. You have had several warnings. And yes, you have had a major improvement in that area, however I was not impressed when I saw it over the towel.
Me: I am sorry baby. I really am. I just... (I couldnt even think of what to say here)
J:Well I shut it off and I thought  about it. I am going to go put the baby in her crib with some toys and when I am doing that I want you to go lay on the bed for me.
Me: Okay...

So I did as told, and when I got to the rooom I saw that he had pillows in the middle of the bed and my straightner rapped up sitting on the bed too! What the!? I knew to lay over the pillows, so I did. J entered the room and continued to talk. He made sure I knew why I was getting punished and told me that he is proud that I dont do this bad habit that often but he wants to get me to the pount where I never do it (and I think he got me there today!!) he then told me that after he started with his hand, he was going to finish up with my straightener!!!
My stomach knotted more than it was already. He spanked me and the straightener actually hurt ALOT! He didnt even spank that long or hard but that thing has alot of impact (who knew?)
He hugged me after and rubbed my back and told me to meet him and the baby in the living room when I was ready. I layed there for a while and then I got my pants on (somewhere in the spanking he took them off) . I went to the living room and him, the baby, and myself had a wonderful evening!! :) Although my bottom was sore the whole time, but I felt very loved and protected. Even sitting here now like 9 hours later it still burns abit!
I can truthfully say that I think it will be a while untill I leave the house without making sure my straightener is turned off!!
Melly

Honey, it's either the seat belt, or MY belt.

Wow. What a tough week it has been. There has been so many good things happening in our life lately, but it seems that for every good thing something bad has to happen aswell. It's been TOUGH. My attitude has got the best of me and there has been spankings and corner time and the works too. Ugh.
Anyways we had just finished shopping and we were about to go home, we got in the car and i didnt put my seatbelt on. This is a regular thing for me, I always forget, J reminds me and thats all. Ha. NOT this time. For whatever reason I was feeling defiant.
"Hey babe, please put your seatbelt on"

"Uhm, NO, I don't feel like it" (scared myself when i said that! couldnt believe it lol)

"Excuse me?"

"Im not putting on my seatbelt. Just drive."

"I am not leaving this parking lot untill you have your seatbelt on. The baby has hers on, I have mine on, shouldnt you put yours on too?"

"uhhhhh... No?"

"(Here my NAME was used, something he doesnt call me unless he is SERIOUS), PUT on your seatbelt. NOW. You know how important it is. What would me and the baby do without you?"
(I hate when he uses my  mother-ness against me like that, he knows how much she means to me, but then again thats why he does it)

I felt bad, I just wanted to listen and do it but I "had" to stick to my guns. I had to be stubborn. "

"NO!!"

"(My name here), last chance, the seatbelt, or MY belt when we get home. you choose.!"

I looked at him and the look on his face was so serious. My, if looks could kill.
Finally I gave in. Those words, that face. Scary.

"Yes Sir"

Yep. I got spanked when we got home. But the spanking was for attitude and being defiant. And it wasn't with his belt :) LOL